(Based on my own experiences).
- *You are noticeable even without trying*!
This is what I call “Dominant Presence,” and it’s only a few people who possess this. Most people could hate you & feel a bit envious because the attention they keep working so hard to get, you attract it even without trying.
- *You are resentless*!
No matter the negativity, gossips & lies people throw at you to alter your progress, yet, you keep standing tall & shining bright. When you’re effortlessly unstoppable, this could trigger hate.
- *They see in you what they cannot see in themselves*.
You possess something special that they desire so much but can never have, & this is not physical possessions. And sometimes you may really not have the slightest knowledge of what you possess & what you’re capable of, but people see it in you regardless. These people could be your “friends,” or relatives & whatever you do, they’d always see it as a competition or a threat.
- *You are likable*!
Hausa people call it “Farin jini,” while the English people would call it “Aura.” Irrespective of the rumors & bad stories people spread about you, you are always likable & loved naturally, you don’t have to do or say much for people to like you. Also, because of the unique qualities you possess, you keep attracting favors & positivity, which waters down the false narratives being spread about you by your enemies, & it bothers them as it should.
- *You are not easily manipulated*.
No matter how hard they try, you’re your own master and they cannot easily change your opinion about another person or become their weapon of war
Happy weekend🙌
