Listen up, Men!
Once the rain is over, an umbrella becomes a burden to everyone. That’s how loyalty ends when the benefits stop. The hard truth? Most people in your life are only there because they’re getting something from you. Your money, your status, your connections, your attention—once those things dry up, watch how fast they disappear.
Ever noticed how people who once called you “bro,” “boss,” or “king” suddenly become distant when you hit a rough patch? Or how that woman who swore she loved you “forever” suddenly changes when the money stops flowing?
That’s life. And instead of crying about it, a real man prepares for it. Here’s what you must understand:
1️. Men are valued for what they provide, not just for existing.
Society doesn’t love men unconditionally. Women, friends, and even family often love what you bring to the table—not just who you are. It’s harsh, but it’s reality.
2️. The stronger you are, the more they’ll pretend to love you.
Success attracts fakes. When you’re winning, people will laugh at your jokes, agree with your ideas, and tell you what you want to hear. But the moment you stumble, that’s when you see who’s real.
3️. Your value isn’t in who sticks around, but in how you carry yourself when they leave.
Real men don’t beg for loyalty. When the fake ones leave, let them go. It’s better to walk alone than to carry parasites on your back.
So, what should you do?
Focus on yourself first. A weak man relies on others. A strong man builds himself so solid that he never has to depend on fake loyalty. Never stop leveling up. If you stay valuable, you stay powerful. Keep working, keep growing, keep stacking—whether people appreciate it or not.
Never let betrayal break you. People will disappoint you. That’s normal. But the moment you let their actions weaken your spirit, you lose.
Always choose your circle wisely. Find men who push you to be better, not leeches who just want a free ride. And when it comes to women, pick one who values you for your principles, not just your pockets.
At the end of the day, you were born alone, and you’ll die alone. Make sure your time in between is spent building a life that nobody can take from you.
So, when the rain stops and the fake ones drop you like an old umbrella—smile. It means you’re finally free to carry less weight on your journey to greatness because you will definitely bounce back and when you do, don’t entertain them for any reason.
Stay sharp. Clear?
-Godwin Nwonu
