When you find a woman who loves you, you assume she’ll never leave because she loves you too much to abandon us.
As a result, you begin to neglect her and sometimes speak harshly to her because of her love for you.
You always wait for her to call first, always wait for her to initiate things, and always wait for her to text first. You don’t make time for her, and sometimes you say hurtful things that wound her.
You belittle her by comparing her to your exes.
You belittle her by reminding her of her past.
You give her no resources to care for herself.
You disrespect her; you don’t listen to her.
You sometimes do horrible things because you know she loves you and won’t leave you.
When she finally leaves, you remain proud, thinking she will return as she used to.
Before you realize it, she has made a decision never to return; only then do you realize you had a precious woman.
When she finds someone better and decides to marry him, you say she’s not a good woman and lie, claiming she abandoned you because of this or that.
The woman you treat like trash will sooner or later become the queen of a man who knows her worth. That’s just life.
Case closed
Nkechi Eke JP