*Come from a family that is united, supportive and have their own individual money even if it is little, there won’t be jealousy and strife: It will shock you to know that Davido may not have spent a dime from his pocket. This wedding may cost up to 400 – 500m naira.
Just the car gift alone to Chioma is over N100m. But with his father, Uncle, and some rich friends, it would all be covered.
*Be there for people so that they will be there for you: most of the celebrities and others in that party came because Davido has rendered them help one way or the other in the past or have a very good relationship with them.
* The family of the couple who isn’t rich won’t be noticed in such a party. They will almost become like spectators and invitees. But such is life – no one should take it to heart.
* Davido knows how to promote and market anything and make it sell. It did it again with this marriage. This isn’t the biggest marriage in Nigeria, infact, most Politicians kid’s marriages in Nigeria are more expensive and bigger, but he made it look so (as if this is bigger) because of his promotional and marketing acumen. He started to hype it online days before the show, and if you say something over and over again, people will believe it. The skills of Adolf Hitler.
* Chioma isn’t shy and innocent as most may believe because she isn’t always on social media talking, when in her space that she is comfortable, may be more rugged than you. She showed flashes of it if you paid attention, reason she is winning the other baby mama. She is very strategic and wise and knows how to play the weakness of Davido to her advantage. No, Chioma rugged.
*To every man, if you don’t have money, don’t marry because love won’t be enough in today’s inflationary world. That marriage no go last. At some point, love will end, and finance will be needed, and if you can’t provide it, it’s goodnight to the marriage.
*Davido has more Igbo billionaire friends than any tribe. There is a reason – he is very transactional, and Igbo men are always transacting.
* Davido has a weakness. He wants to be loved by many – he has fragile emotions, and when not loved by the public, it gets to him, reason he goes off sometimes online. Yesterday, his vulnerability showed – going forward, I will judge him differently. Now I understand him.
* He loves Chioma to the end of the world, but like most men, even if they love a woman, they can still cheat, but it doesn’t stop the love. Life is complicated, and so is love.
*Davido’s celebrities circle is small. Many would think it is large because of how
‘ Internet – open’ he is. Just about 30% of Nigerian celebrities were present.
Lastly, money is everything, but regardless, do what works for you. If your style is a small classy wedding like Tuface did some times ago, do it, and if big, go ahead. But do not allow anyone to force you to what your pocket or style doesn’t support.
Marriage wey go last go last, if you like, do am for heaven. But get small funds as a man to take care of responsibility in the marriage, and you’ll be fine.
Keep grinding 💪, no envy anyone, don’t be pressured, every man get him own destiny for life – walk your own, be happy and contented. Everything in the end na vanity.
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